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I'm a guy so I can only comment on the buttsex part. Don't act out if you get a bad response, and don't have the conversation online. You can't afford to not be taken seriously if you are indeed serious. She might not react well and hurtful things are harder to say by accident if it's face to face and you have to watch the expression on your lover's face in real time. If I were trans I'd segway from that into what size penis she'd choose if she were a guy, then buy her that size feeldoe as a gift, with a card featuring the sexiest pic of my ass I could come up with, and some cutesy but dirty wordplay, cause being straightforward and honest won't make anyone who isn't interested suddenly want your ass, so still be honest, but dress it up a bit. A number of times I've been initially repulsed by ideas only to find myself aroused by them later, it's like being corrected by your own body. kkk

Well, I came out to my gf (GG) in, like, November or something. We had been dating for over half a year by that point, and while I loved her, I was starting to feel a sense of loss because I was hiding who I was (this has happened in all of my previous relationships and I didn't want to lose this girl -- but I knew that by telling her, I might lose her anyway, but I needed to take the risk). Basically, I waited until it was just her and me in the house, we sat down, and asked her if she had ever noticed that I'm not like other guys. She said she did and that's what she liked about me...she said there was something about me that she couldn't quite put her finger on and she wished she knew what it was. I told her that I was transgender (specifically, bigender, more female than male). I told her that that's why I wore girls jeans and that I wore panties. She smiled and kissed me and told me that she loves me no matter what. I asked her if it weirded her out or anything and she kind of chuckled and said, "Look at who I hang out with" (her best friend is a lesbian/drab king). For the next couple days, she overthought the whole thing and was worried that I would break up with her for a man (she didn't care if I would have been happier with a man, but she didn't want me to leave her). I assured her that that would never happen. A couple months later, our sex life reinvigorated, we were trying to think of something fun and exciting to do in bed, and I asked her if she had ever heard of pegging. I explained the concept to her and first she said that she loved me and that she would love to try it, but she didn't want to hurt me. She said before we spent any money on a strap-on or feeldoe, she wanted to make sure I liked it, so a couple days later we went to the local toy store and she helped me pick out a vibrator. She also said that she's glad that I brought up the idea to her and would rather have her fuck my ass instead of having someone else do it (she is not into sharing me with anyone, and I love that about her).

Basically, be honest with your partner. If they really love you, they'll be receptive to you. If they put up any resistance, I guess just keep the idea in their mind until it doesn't seem gross or whatever to them anymore. I think I may have had an advantage over most people, having a partner who's open-minded to begin with, but there's no reason why others can't be that open-minded. Since I told my partner, our relationship has been amazing and the sex has been amazing. I've never been this close to anyone before and I've never been happier. In fact, we're engaged now, and I think that telling her helped us get to this point.

Definitely alcohol. I don't think my girlfriend would care too much but I haven't tried all that hard to tell her. When we first met I told her I liked guys too. Turns out I had hooked up with one of her best friends and he gave her a good "recommendation" for me.

I've gotten her to massage my asshole while she was giving me head before but I keep trying her to get a strapon and complete the mission but she won't.

I think woman are lazy though and that would mean putting work into having sex.

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seriously you just wrote out the relationship i'm in ... only difference is i'm not bi gender