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Hi everyone! I'm clementine, I'm brand new to the cross dressing world and have finally decided to make the transition from male to female using herbal supplements. I have been reading all kinds of positive and negative reviews and haven't been able to really narrow down anything that is of serious help.
I've been looking at pueraria mirifica I've read a lot that is has very high amounts of estrogen and will help your hair, skin as well as breast development, but have also read that this a butt load of lies. Anyone have any good reviews or uses of this?
What are some other good herbal supplements I can take to help my breast development or my figure?
Also I have yet to come out to my wife about this also my brother is my roommate who I love to death and am not sure how either of would them react. Neither are intolerant people but I'm 25 and have never once shown any interest in doing things like this so I'm a little worried, I have been working on separate letters for the both of them because I know sitting down and speaking to them would be too hard. Any suggestions on how to talk to them or how to come out and tell my family and loved ones that I wish to be a female? I appreciate any and all input as this is all fairly new to me.